Breasts

Breasts, everyone loves them right? I mean, all you see is big breasts everywhere from the internet, social media, magazines, TV, Films, to the general outdoors. It does make me laugh when women complain that they have to shop at Bravisimo or that their womanly curves get them down, that they can’t shop in 'normal' shops or that the media should use women with 'more healthy' proportions.

Well as far as I know women with flat chests are healthy too and have problems buying bra’s that A. fit and B. look decent with what we have been given. In fact, all I can see in the media is women with big ol’boobs. Maybe we should promote all types including the small ones. But continuously I see a woman’s sexuality depicted by the size of her breasts. The most recent one that pops to mind is on Saints Row where you can decide how sexy your female character is from: not at all (flat chested) to the sexiest woman in the game (Huge chested).

With all this titty hype it is no wonder why so many women go under the knife. I myself have been saving up to get a boob job since I was 13 and the first person to see them, a doctor, told me how repulsive they were because I was born with “constricted, tubular, uneven, saggy breasts”. But that’s just it, I myself am making it worse by buying in to it. But I would like to have some sex appeal, why should I suffer or be classed, by society, as ugly because I was born defected and different?

I defy you to spend one day looking at every pair of breasts you see and the ones on people with any type of power or in the media will have a decent rack. The one film I have seen with a woman with a flat chest or small “in-perfect” boobs was the Swedish version of ‘The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo’ and America had to remake that with Rooney Mara with bigger, perkier, “more attractive” breasts.

At the end of the day they are for primarily for feeding our offspring so why has a woman’s sexuality become based on them? How dare we tell someone that they are unsexy because they have smaller lumps of fat under their skin; how dare we make women feel un confident with their natural beauty; how dare we make women who have undergone mastectomies, or had cancer, or been born with a defect feel like they have to hide, because they are “unsexy and ugly” merely for not having the right amount of flesh on their chests.